Domestic abuse support
- Last reviewed
- May 2026
- Area
- England & London
- Cost
- Free services
It is not only physical violence. Abuse may include threats, intimidation, humiliation, isolation, stalking, harassment, coercive control, sexual abuse, forced marriage, “honour”-based abuse, or control over money, documents, phones, housing, work, or access to children.
If you cannot speak safely when calling 999 from a mobile, stay on the line and press 55 when prompted so the call can be transferred to the police (Silent Solution). For non-emergencies, contact the police on 101.
You do not have to wait until abuse becomes physical to ask for help. Specialist services can listen confidentially, explain your options, help with safety planning, and signpost you to refuge accommodation, legal advice, housing support, counselling, and local teams.
If you are worried about someone else, do not confront the suspected abuser. Choose a safe moment to ask if they are okay and help them contact support.
National helplines
- National Domestic Abuse Helpline (Refuge) — free, confidential, 24 hours a day — 0808 2000 247; online support on the website
- GOV.UK — domestic abuse guidance (recognising abuse, emergency help, police support, legal protection, housing, benefits, support for children)
- Women’s Aid — safety planning, local services, children’s support, and advice on covering your tracks online
- Men’s Advice Line — confidential advice for male victims of domestic abuse, and for people worried about a man they know